If your relationship with a girl has recently ended and the two of you are not speaking at all, you may be wondering ‘what’s next?’ Whether the two of you officially broke up or she ghosted you, it can be agonizing wondering whether a girl is gone forever. Is she avoiding you temporarily? Does she just need some time before she’s open to talking to you again? Will she ever want to speak to you or be friends? If you still have feelings for this girl, you might still be thinking about her often or even hoping that she’ll come back. Here are the 5 telltale signs she is gone forever.
Sign 1. She told you she doesn’t want to be friends
When your relationship ended, did she tell you directly that she has no desire to be friends with you? It might sound obvious but this is a very clear message that she does not want you in her life anymore. Since the two of you are no longer dating and she does not want to be friends, it’s reasonable to assume that she is gone forever.
Alternatively, if your relationship ended on a bad note and she said anything along the lines of “I never want to speak to you again” then this is also indicative that she is gone forever. Basically, if she has already told you that she doesn’t want to have a relationship with you, this has to be one of the clearest signs that she is gone forever.
Sign 2. She’s deleted you off her social media accounts
If this girl has removed you as a friend from her social media accounts i.e. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat etc. then is telling. Clearly, she does not want you viewing her posts or having any clue about what she’s up to in her daily life. Nor does she care about knowing what you are up to.
Sign 3. She’s blocked you
When a girl blocks you on messenger, this is a clear sign that she is gone forever. Whether she blocked you because she was upset or because she wants to make it easier to move on, blocking you is a concrete action that shows she is not willing to communicate with you anymore.
The only exception to this is if she blocked you in the heat of the moment e.g. to give you the silent treatment temporarily or to scare you. If she blocked you recently after an argument, it’s possible she just needs some time to cool down before speaking to you again.
Related: Why Did She Block Me For No Reason? Here Are 10 Common Reasons Why
Sign 4. It’s been a while since the two of you spoke
Did your relationship ended a while ago i.e. months or years ago? If she’s never once taken the initiative to message you, it’s time to accept that she is probably gone forever. If she wanted to have a relationship with you, she probably would have already done so already.
Sign 5. She doesn’t respond to your messages
If you’ve tried to reach out to this girl (you may have even double texted) and she’s failed to respond, it’s highly likely that she is gone forever. If she was interested in chatting, she would have replied. It’s as simple as that.
What should I do if she is gone forever?
Unfortunately, there is zero point in dwelling on this girl. No matter how amazing your relationship with her may have been in the past, it doesn’t matter in the present. The reality is that this girl is no longer in your life and is uninterested in communicating with you. There’s nothing to gain by wondering and hoping that she will come back eventually.
No matter what your feelings are for her, it’s clear that this girl does not value you. Rather than thinking about her, try to focus on moving on. You’re better off dedicating your time to other people and other activities that actually offer your life some value.
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