I Acted Crazy and He Blocked Me. What Should I do?

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Have you recently had a conflict with your boyfriend or the guy you’re seeing and now realized that he has blocked you? Perhaps, in retrospect, you realize that your words or actions were slightly out of line. If you said things in anger that were over the top, you may now regret. Or, maybe you feel confused because acting crazy had somehow become a regular occurrence during your relationship. As a result, you may be wondering “I acted crazy and he blocked me. What should I do?”

Why do people sometimes act crazy in relationships?

People often act irrationally when it comes to love

When it comes to love, it can be hard to act rationally and logically. If someone has strong feelings for the other person, it’s only naturally to become emotionally invested. They may have put a great deal of hope and trust into the other person. It’s possible they are imagining that they will spend the rest of their lives with the other person.

The fear of losing the other person can make someone act crazy

If someone is deeply in love with another person, they can become completely absorbed in another world. They may spend their whole day thinking about their loved one and even obsess about them. Unfortunately, the fear of losing the other person can cause great stress or anxiety to them, too. They may overreact to any perceived threats to their relationship.

The green-eyed monster of jealousy can make someone act crazy too

Jealousy is a normal human emotion that we all experience, especially when we are in love. A small amount of jealousy is healthy. However, when jealousy becomes irrational and overbearing then this is when it becomes a problem. Someone who is experiences intense jealousy will be triggered by small things. They may become possessive or obsessive about their partner and end up acting crazy.

Acting crazy may also be a result of one’s past bad experiences in relationships

Some people have a tendency to act crazy in relationships because of their past experiences. For example, they may have previously been cheated on. As a result, they have trust issues and are overly suspicious of guys they date. Or, they may have even had difficult family circumstances e.g. witnessing their own parents’ relationship issues. This can also cause someone to have difficulties maintaining healthy relationships of their own.

Someone who has insecurities is more likely to act crazy in relationships, too

If someone has deep rooted insecurities of their own e.g. low self-esteem, this may cause them to act crazy in relationships. An insecure person’s sense of self can easily be affected by the other person’s actions compared to someone who is grounded and secure.

I acted crazy and he blocked me. What does it mean?

If you acted crazy and he blocked you, it can have several meanings, depending on the situation.

It’s over between the two of you.

Most of the time, if a guy blocks you, he does not want to have anything to do with you. Most people are unwilling to be subjected to crazy behaviour in a relationship. If after you acted crazy, he used words like “it’s over” or “don’t speak to me again,” then it’s clear that he no longer wants to hear from you again.

Did he block you on a single messaging platform or on everything?

If he blocked you on every messaging platform that the two of you use e.g. Whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook etc. then it’s clear that he absolutely does not want you to contact him again. However, if he only blocked you on a single platform then it’s possible there’s still some hope. It means that there is still a way for you to contact him.

He may have blocked you in the heat of the moment but does not want to permanently cut you off

No one likes to be subjected to someone else’s crazy behaviour. By blocking you, he is sending a clear message that your behaviour was seriously out of line. He may have been freaked out or angry by your outburst and needed a way to cut you off.

Most of the time, if a guy blocks you, he has had enough. However, in some circumstances, it does not necessarily mean that he never wants to hear from you again. However, he was definitely put off by your crazy behaviour. He may need some time away from you before reconsidering talking to you again.

I acted crazy and he blocked me. What should I do?

Ask yourself this:

What do you want to achieve? Do you want to make amends with him?
Did you act crazy because of something he did? Even though you may have reacted crazily, were there reasonable grounds for being upset at him?
Is the relationship actually making you happy and is it something that you want to continue with?
Or, did you act crazy because of your own issues?

Firstly, do NOT flood him with messages

Absolutely do not bombard him with messages or phone calls asking why he blocked you or demanding him to reply. This is a sure way to prove to him that you really are crazy.

Give him some space

The fact that he blocked you is a clear indication that he needs to maintain distance from you. It’s important to respect this.

Do you want to apologize to him?

If you feel that you are at fault and want to apologize, then it’s important to take responsibility for your actions. Identify what you did wrong and consider the reasons that made you act this way. Only then can you apologize to him sincerely. If he hasn’t blocked you on all modes of communication then there may be a chance that he will hear you out.

Or, is it time to call it quits?

Perhaps after mulling over what happened, you realize that your relationship is simply not meant to be. Maybe your relationship was causing you to feel unhappy or insecure, which is what caused you to act crazy in the first place. In this situation, you’re better off just leaving things be and moving on.

Either way, take some time to reflect on why you acted crazy in the first place

Acting crazy in a relationship does not happen for no reason. It usually occurs when one is feeling angry or insecure about something specific. Here are some questions to ask yourself:

Did you act crazy because of long-term issues in the relationship led you to feel insecure?
Or, do you yourself have a tendency to overreact to situations?
If you regularly acted crazy in this relationship, why?
Did his behaviour trigger insecurities in you?
Could it be that he’s simply not the right guy for you?

The bottom line

If you’ve been blocked by a guy after acting crazy, it’s unlikely that you can salvage the situation. A guy blocking you is a clear message that he’s had enough. He does not want to be involved with you anymore. However, if you regret your actions and are prepared to apologize sincerely, it may be possible to redeem yourself.

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